Podcaster and media personality Bunnie Xo is turning heartbreak into humor, jokingly comparing her divorce from country music star Jelly Roll to being released from a decade-long prison sentence. During a recent episode of her popular "Dumb Blonde" podcast, the 46-year-old entertainer responded to an admirer's direct message with a biting quip about her marriage coming to an end .
Bunnie, whose legal name is Alisa DeFord, was reviewing the flood of messages she has received in her Instagram inbox since news of her split from the Grammy-winning artist became public. She claimed she has only responded to two of the many suitors reaching out but decided to entertain her co-hosts by reading several ill-fated attempts to capture her attention .
The exchange that sparked her viral joke came from a man who revealed he was nearing the end of a lengthy prison stay. The message read: "Hey pretty lady, I'm about to get out of prison on a 10 year bid next year. Please let me go out and have a time with you. That's all I ask. I promise it will be worth it. Hit me back" .
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Bunnie initially admitted she didn't mind the man's incarceration status. However, she took issue with his phrasing, specifically the request to "have a time" with her, which she interpreted as an expectation for physical intimacy on a first date . The conversation took a humorous turn when her co-host, Meme Shahan, noted that after a decade behind bars, the man might be eager. Bunnie seized the moment to draw a parallel to her personal life, saying, "I mean, same. I just got out of a 10-year bid too, what are we talking about" .
The Context of the Split
The joke comes against the backdrop of a very real and recent marital dissolution. Jelly Roll, whose real name is Jason Bradley DeFord, officially filed for divorce in Williamson County, Tennessee, on May 18 . Court documents cited irreconcilable differences and listed the couple's date of separation as May 9, bringing an end to a relationship that began in 2015 and led to a Las Vegas wedding in August 2016 .
Despite the legal proceedings, which caught many fans off guard, both parties have publicly emphasized that the split remains amicable. During a recent concert in Saratoga Springs, New York, Jelly Roll addressed the situation directly, telling the audience that he and Bunnie remain best friends and that "nobody cheated on nobody" . He validated the details she shared on her podcast, expressing his love for her and gratitude for their ten years together .
Bunnie has echoed these sentiments, describing Jelly Roll as her best friend and revealing that they still plan to have a child together through surrogacy as part of their ongoing IVF journey . She described their unconventional relationship dynamic and noted that while the divorce was not mutual in the sense that she felt blindsided by the filing—which occurred after she suggested it in anger during a Mother's Day argument—she respects his decision and believes the separation is necessary for their health and happiness .
Maintaining a United Front
Insiders close to the former couple suggest that there was no single inciting event for the breakup. Instead, they reportedly grew apart as Jelly Roll's career and personal growth trajectory shifted dramatically over the past few years . Sources indicate that the country star feels healthier and more in control of his future than ever before, a stark contrast to the person Bunnie met nearly a decade ago .
Bunnie has also acknowledged the transformation they underwent together, stating that they served their purpose in each other's lives and saved one another during difficult times . She has been candid about the challenges of marriage, referring to her divorce as the end of a chapter and joking that "three strikes, you're out" regarding her track record with matrimony .
However, she remains dedicated to their family unit, which includes Jelly Roll's two children from previous relationships, and has stressed that their emotional bond persists despite the legal end to their romantic partnership .
Public Reaction
Bunnie's ability to find levity in the situation while maintaining professionalism and respect for her estranged husband has resonated with her audience. Following the release of the podcast clip, where she joked she was "going to get a phone call" from Jelly Roll reacting to her prison metaphor, listeners have praised her for navigating a difficult time with transparency and wit . She later clarified she was "just cutting the rug" and that the comments were made in jest .
As the dust settles on their divorce, Bunnie Xo appears to be embracing her new chapter with a blend of vulnerability and her signature humor. While she has received attention for her comedic timing regarding the "10-year bid," she remains a central figure in the narrative of Jelly Roll's rise to stardom and continues to prioritize their future co-parenting relationship.